The reason I wanna talk about 'taking a chance' is because if you're like myself . . . you don't always see 'the light at the end of the tunnel.' So with that said, we tend to self-sabotage, which later leads to much larger issues.
Sometimes we don't take certain chances or opportunities, when they are presented to us because...
1. It doesn't align with our brand or our value.
2. Our ego gets in the way and we think we're "above" what's being offered.
3. We may not see the mere value in ourselves.
4. We may not want to feel like we're being used . . . again!
5. And of course, there's some trauma and triggers there.
Overall, it just looks like WE WANT MORE. WE DESERVE MORE. And let me tell you - that' fair! BUT! Yes, there is a 'but' moment.
My therapist helped me with this . . . You can always change your mind later. And sometimes, we feel like we can't be all in! We want to be in a space where everything we're doing . . . aligns and makes us feel happy.
Confession! I've either turned down opportunities or found opportunities not being everything that I needed them to be . . . the ending result is that I was still unhappy. BUT! what if you take that chance and it brings you something that you weren't expecting?
Think about it for a second...
Times up! lol Now I think we should just do what MY therapist said lol and take that chance! What's the worst that could happen? . . . we don't rock with it and we change our mind!
keep learning - keep growing
~ deeply out ❤
dancer: Jada Gomez
photo by Kayden Nunziato